Showing posts with label weight loss obstacles. Show all posts
Showing posts with label weight loss obstacles. Show all posts

Tuesday, 24 May 2016

Obstacles to Weight Loss

In a previous article that I have written here entitled, "The Challenge in Losing Weight," I have identified three (3) basic challenges that people who would want to trim down and get rid of those excess fat in their body face. The three main challenges evolve in:
  1. Motivation
  2. Reason
  3. Determination

In this article, we shall dwell on factors that make the person stop or quit from getting that ideal weight or factors that make a person stop from losing weight. We shall try in our utmost effort to provide possible solutions that would allow you to overcome these obstacles so you can continue to see the effects of your effort in losing weight.

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I am not seeing any results

The first possible obstacle that one can face in their effort of losing those unwanted fats is the fact that the first initial steps would often display a huge amount of lost weight but then, after a few more trips to the gym, they start to see no results at all.

Health experts and dieticians would normally call this the plateu stage and this is something that often happens to people who are losing weight. This is something that I have experienced myself where every week I would be going to our company clinic to measure my weight. The first few weeks saw a huge improvement where I lost around 29.95 kilos but then, after that first big drop, I found myself in a plateau where my weight would just be going up and down between 122kgs and 120kgs and this has gone for almost a month.

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I started to lose hope at first because I have been measuring my weight every 2 weeks and I don't see any drop or movement. However, I missed out on one important thing... the fact that my weight might not be changing because the fats are turning into mass and muscles. I then tried to check out for the contours of my body and found that my arms started to have form, my stomach bulges started to have deep curves.
I then told myself that I should not stop what I am doing and should continue and go on with my visits to the gym and lessening the food intake and continue with the no rice or less carb intake. I do admit that there have been times that I miss going to the gym to work out since I am working in the call center and there are really times that I am really sleepy that I could not wake up and drag myself to the gym.

Even if the results were a bit slow, I never stopped pushing myself to go to the gym to work-out. I may not have been able to go there daily like before, but then, every time I am able to do so, I found it a habit to still go even if I could not spend 4 hours in the gym, I always made sure that I would have at least 30 minutes of cardio work-out in the stationary bike and 1 hour to about 1 hour and a half doing the work-outs for my chest, shoulders, back, and even my lower extremities.

Setting Up Goals

One of the things that allowed me to push to lose weight after coming from all the challenges of not being able to go and visit the gym daily was to take note of how many calories I burn during my cardio work-out in the stationary bike. My goal was always to burn more calories, to ensure that I pedal at a faster speed, if possible to ensure that I remain consistent pedalling at a speed of 40 for the 30 minutes that I spend on the stationary bike. It was a huge challenge and there are times when I feel that I am trying to set ideal goals for losing weight.

Setting goals for weight loss would be one of the obstacles and challenges for those who really want to lose weight. Most health experts and dieticians would say that in order for one to ensure that they are on track with their weight loss, is to set realistic and achievable goals. You can't have a weight of 270lbs and expect to lose it in just a matter of 3 months. Some of the people that I have talked to whenever I spend time working out in the gym would often say that it takes for one to be consistent in their work-out routine in order for them to achieve the results that they want.
If your goal is to be consistent, you should be able to set goals that are very realistic that you don't end up losing hope and stop in achieving that weight that you want or that body contour that you want to have.

Another advise that was given to me by one of my gym buddies was to get a picture of the ideal body that I want to have. This is, in a way, factoring the Law of Attraction into your weight loss goal. The Law of Attraction was originally derived from Rhonda Byrne's book entitled The Secret which was again derived from Charles F. Haanel's Master Key System. Both authors discuss about how to attract something that you want to have in your life. If you want to have a lean, muscular body, then you would first have to see yourself in that state.

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Stress Eating / Eating for Comfort

I have known several people who have told me that they wanted to lose weight and become slim but then, when you ask them if they have started cutting down on their food intake, they tend to give you several reasons why they should not. When I first lost weight in 2010, the first thing that I told myself was I would not be eating rice at all. I first conditioned my mind and prepared myself that starting from that day, all that I would be eating would just be the viand and my meals would not have rice along with it.

I was successful in the said mind conditioning and was able to totally survive eating my meals without rice. I ate more vegetables, took in lunch and dinner by just eating my viand, especially if it were meat. If I had chicken, I would opt to eat the white meat. I did not remove the skin but I often remove the fat when my viand was steak or pork chop.
I started to eat less, but I did not bother if I need to eat frequently. My father told me that one of the reasons why I became fat was due to the fact that I would not be eating one meal but then eat in just one jampack. I remember when I was in high school, I would often skip lunch but when I get home, I would eat as if I combined my lunch and dinner when I get home. Sometimes, I would even eat dinner when it is already time to eat dinner, therefore multiplying the food that I intake and then sleep.

Stress eating is also one of the things that I have noticed myself doing. When I get pressured or stressed, I tend to divert them to eating more or just eat anything that I encounter either in a food store, restaurant, etc. I have learned to divert my outlet and not focus on eating whenever I get stressed. In 2010, when I first decided to lose weight, I diverted my emotions, i.e. anger, frustration, stress when I work out. I ended up lifting heavier weights, doing more sets and repetitions of whatever workout I was doing. I found myself doing cardio in the strider for 1 hour before I lift weights and another hour before I go home. I actually found myself working out in the gym for 4 hours and then go home feeling so exhausted that I can sleep well.

These are just three (3) of the possible challenges that people who would want to lose weight encounter. It is actually good to take note and be aware of them in order for us to avoid falling into such traps. I would admit that I have not totally overcome everything and sometimes, there are moments when I slip and draw back to some of them. However, since I am aware of such tendencies, when I recognize that I am going back into the said traps, I would find a way of diverting my attention in order not to fall and commit the same mistakes.

Do you see yourself falling into any of these scenarios and traps? Then I challenge you to find a way of avoiding falling into the challenges of losing weight and persevere in losing those extra fats.
 
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Tuesday, 15 September 2015

Three weight loss obstacles you've probably never considered and how to get around them

Making plans to lose weight is the easy part. Applying those plans consistently is what really matters.

The primary obstacles to consistently applying your plan to lose weight aren't about knowing what to do. They're emotional.

Read on to discover three obstacles you should consider as you implement your weight loss plan.


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Weight loss obstacle #1: lack of emotional preparedness

Many overweight people are simply not prepared for the emotional consequences of losing weight. In fact, most people never even consider this all important factor.

If you lose all the weight you need to lose to be physically healthy, what will your emotional life be like? It's easy to think, "Of course, I'll be ecstatic!"

Think again. It might not be that simple.

One interesting study sought to determine whether losing weight actually made people healthier and happier. Participants who lost weight were indeed physically healthier according to lab results.

But were they happier?

No. Not at all. Actually, people who lost more than 5% of their body weight over time were more likely to report depression!

I am emphasizing this to prove an all important point. Losing weight will NOT automatically make you happier, according to research.

Fascinatingly, while losing weight will not necessarily make you happy, being happy will help you lose weight! Research shows that a positive body image -- being happy with who you are now -- is what leads to successful weight loss.

This means your level of compassion and tolerance for yourself right now is critical to your success. This is the necessary emotional preparation -- developing tolerance for yourself.

But if I were thin, then I would not criticize myself....

Not necessarily. Self-criticism is a universal phenomenon among all types of people. If you are prone to self-criticism, you will always find a reason to do it unless you learn how to stop from the inside out.

One participant in the AHA Weight Loss Coaching group put it this way:

So, I'm questioning myself EVERY time I eat, even when it's totally appropriate (eggs at breakfast). It is becoming abundantly clear that my MO is to find any and every way to trash talk myself and I think this is part of that...

In this particular group, participants learn how self-sabotage works. And we slowly discover that this nasty little phenomenon is the #1 obstacle to losing weight. Most of us already know the mechanics of losing weight. The problem isn't knowing what to do. It's that we chronically get in our own way.

Releasing the self-criticism, self-doubt, helplessness, futility, shame and other negative emotions clears the way to apply what you know consistently. This is where the magic really happens. AND, while making better choices, we are also becoming happier people along the way.

End the self-criticism first, then losing weight will be 100% easier. Think about it. Doesn't it make sense?

Weight loss obstacle #2: sabotage from friends and family

Have you ever considered that you may have family or friends that do not want you to lose weight? Most of the time, they don't come right out and say it, but the expectation lingers, floating around as an "unconscious contract."

This contract manifests when you start to lose weight. Slowly but surely, the people who are more comfortable with the overweight version of you begin to treat you differently.

It's as if they are sending one of the following messages:

• People in this family are heavy. If you become slender, you won't be one of us.

• Don't betray me by becoming thin.

• If you look good, you won't be humble. People who look good are so full of themselves.

• What are you, some sort of health nut?

• If you start looking good, I'm going to lose you.

People who begin to succeed at weight loss are routinely offered all kinds of junk food goodies from "well intended" family and friends who seem to be uncomfortable with the success.

Often, the best thing to do in this case raise the issue. Without a doubt, if you succeed and become your ideal weight, you'll need new ways to relate with people who have become accustomed to the heavier you.

Any lifestyle change requires adjustments to relationships. Best to take this one on consciously and get the support you need from people who understand what you are going through.

Weight loss obstacle #3: powerful "screw it!" moments

This one is the lurking vulnerability for so many of us. We get going on a weight loss plan. Things are going ok and then whamo! We get hit with an "ah screw it" moment.

During the "screw it" shenanigan, we simply stop caring. What was once our most enthusiastic and committed goal suddenly becomes the stupidest idea in the world.

During these moments, we say to ourselves things like:

Who cares? I'm not going to succeed anyway.

What does it matter? Nobody is ever going to like me.

What the hell -- I don't even want to lose weight anymore.

You know what? Life's difficult enough. I don't need to deprive myself of these donuts.

So and so is such a pain to deal with. Why should I expect myself to be perfect when I'm surrounded by jerks?

Screw this! I can eat what I want!


It's as if a part of you rebels against any expectations, even your own. Isn't that something? And it's a very, very common experience among people who set goals to better themselves.

Ultimately, to be successful, you must take the rebellion head on by owning it. Yes, I rebel against expectations -- even my own -- and this rebellion sabotages my goals.

Behind the rebellion may be a sense of rejection, oppression or even deep pain for having been controlled, deprived or rejected early in life. Many of us, upon enduring such treatment, vowed to never let anyone have power over us again.

The problem is, we end up rebelling against our own conscious will. Recognizing this is the first step toward letting this emotional rebellion go.

The bottom line:
You need to be interacting with people who are successfully dealing with these issues in order to learn how to deal with them yourself and receive support.

Mike Bundrant is Founder of the AHA Weight Loss online coaching group. If you like this article, like Mike on Facebook.


About the author:
Watch the free video The AHA! Process: An End to Self-Sabotage and discover the lost keys to personal transformation and emotional well-being that have been suppressed by mainstream mental health for decades.

The information in this video has been called the missing link in mental health and personal development. In a world full of shallow, quick-fix techniques, second rate psychology and pharmaceutical takeovers, real solutions have become nearly impossible to find. Click here to watch the presentation that will turn your world upside down.

Mike Bundrant is co-founder of the iNLP Center and host of Mental Health Exposed, a Natural News Radio program.
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Sunday, 6 September 2015

Top 5 psychological obstacles to weight loss, according to people in the trenches





What's the number one most difficult obstacle to losing weight?

The hardest part - the real kicker - is sticking to your plan, right?

It's the patience, perseverance and self-discipline. It's the wanting and the commitment to losing weight and becoming as healthy as you know you can be. For most people, losing the proper amount of weight will take weeks, months or even years.

What will keep you going?

The AHA Weight Loss Coaching group has discovered that when we address one or more of five psychological obstacles - all other obstacles can be brought into alignment.

If we fail to address the following issues where applicable, then losing weight may remain forever out of reach.

What prevents that all-systems-go desire and discipline to get fit and healthy?

AHA Weight Loss Group members have shared the following:


1. Fear of being thin

Some group members have reported that as they begin to lose weight, they become afraid. What will happen? How will people react to me? Do I want all the attention?

This is a common experience. To resolve it, we need to acknowledge and express the fear. Then, we must adapt. If being fit and slender is scary for you, then you need to develop the skills to manage situations as they arise. This can only be done by addressing the fear.

2. Emotional bondage to friends and family

Interestingly, some of us feel bonded to our heavy weight because of ties to family and friends. One group member summed it up this way:

In my life, every time I have lost weight, my mother distances herself from me. When I am overweight like her, she accepts me. She's obviously not comfortable with me when I am healthy, due to her own issues. But my conflict is that if I lose weight, I lose my relationship with my mother.


This is powerful. Relationships often have to be reset when one person changes. This must be done with thoughtfulness and care.

3. Self-sabotage

There an infinite ways we can sabotage ourselves. If you've had a hard time losing weight due to lack of discipline, then self-sabotage is surely in the mix.

Self-sabotage occurs when you do the opposite of what makes you happy and healthy. It may be the universal human weakness, as millions of people are unhappy and unhealthy, even though they have other options.

The hardest part of about self-sabotage is recognizing it. Watch this free and enlightening video to learn what how self-sabotage works and how to end it.

4. "Ah, Screw It!"

Big one here. Nearly every member of the AHA group has this tendency. We say screw it to our health and fitness. It's like we have an inner rebel that just wants to defy expectations and break the rules.

When we give ourselves a structured plan, the Rebel can only take so much before launching a massive inner protest.

This inner Rebel is powerful and must be reckoned with. Interestingly, most people are only vulnerable to the Rebel at certain points during the day.

5. Anticipated failure

Futility. A sense of despair and futility can be a powerful self-fulfilling prophecy. Those with this issue report that even as they set their weight loss goals, they "know" it is all pointless. They have failed time and time again.

Why would this time be any different?

Because this time they are dealing with their inner futility. They are confronting it, learning about it and developing skills and support to move beyond it.

Mike Bundrant is author of the book Your Achilles Eel: Discover and Overcome the Hidden Cause of Negative Emotions, Bad Decisions and Self-Sabotage.

For more information about the AHA Weight Loss Group, click here. If you like this article, then like my Facebook Page to keep up with all my writing.

About the author:
Watch the free video The AHA! Process: An End to Self-Sabotage and discover the lost keys to personal transformation and emotional well-being that have been suppressed by mainstream mental health for decades.

The information in this video has been called the missing link in mental health and personal development. In a world full of shallow, quick-fix techniques, second rate psychology and pharmaceutical takeovers, real solutions have become nearly impossible to find. Click here to watch the presentation that will turn your world upside down.

Mike Bundrant is co-founder of the iNLP Center and host of Mental Health Exposed, a Natural News Radio program.

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